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People Who Walk Out On Their Families For Adulterous Relationships (God Doesn’t Bless Mess)

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July 31, 2017

There’s a famous singer/songwriter in his 50s who left his wife after 25-years of marriage and three kids, to marry a vain Hollywood type (actress). The woman he left his wife for is a few years younger than she is, but not better looking.

There is no blessing in that. He is headed for trouble. He’s flaunting his new wife on social networking, but his fans are disappointed and perplexed by his behavior. He used to speak so well of his first wife, even stating he wrote hit songs about her. Then cheats on her with the actress, divorces and marries his mistress and posts it all over social networking like he’s going through some mid-life crisis. It’s not his best moment.

His behavior and in clear sight of any and everyone, caused the public to lose faith in love.

He had been cheating on his first wife and it broke the marriage (though he won’t admit it). I can’t imagine his behavior will change with the second wife, as their union was not about love, but sex. They are not compatible either, which is not helpful to a new marriage. He was quite compatible with his first wife and the marriage lasted 25-years, until his mistress pressured him into filing for divorce. Now he doesn’t look happy with the second wife and it has only been a couple years.

For a few years before the divorce, I knew about him cheating on his first wife, but didn’t write about it on any of my sites or repeat what I was told regarding the infidelity, despite the fact it would have been a scoop online. I was more disappointed than anything, as for years this man kept stating how he loves his wife and wrote all these songs about her that me and many others bought for years (music CDs).

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There’s an athlete who has left his wife for a younger, so-called businesswoman, who is only after him for his money and fame. He is currently separated from his wife. Now his young kids have to deal with daddy not being there in the house anymore and one of them is sick. The athlete posted photos on social networking of his kids and now they look sad. Their dad does not live with them anymore and that’s tough for any kid who is used to both parents living in the same house.

His wife was with him when he had nothing. Now he’s with a money hungry woman who is playing him and for all to see. His fans know, but he doesn’t realize it. He is flaunting on social networking a woman, who unbeknownst to him is a gold digger. His fans who know what happened with his wife, are disappointed, as they know he is married to someone else.

This woman has no shame either to be posing up on social networking with someone else’s husband and showing off the things she bought with his money. She was not entitled to that money or those things. God doesn’t bless mess.

That’s not to say God won’t bless someone in that situation. It simply means He will not bless a marriage or relationship born out of adultery. He clearly states in the Bible that He punishes it Spiritually speaking, it will lead to heartbreak, trouble and suffering in life. Leave other people’s spouses alone. As it is written, “What God has put together, let no man pull apart.”

He should not have left his wife. There is no blessing in that. He is headed for trouble. In fact, he needs to go back to his wife, as the divorce has not been made final. That would be the right thing to do. God can help them reconcile.

I sometimes wonder how men can’t tell when a woman is after them for their money. For example, the woman the athlete is dating, is all of a sudden in charge of his career when she knows nothing about the sport and has no experience, but is controlling his financial interests. Dead giveaway. It’s not beneficial to his career. A qualified professional in the sports industry would make him far more money and provide better career guidance.

Some men cheat in trying to recapture their youth. However, they are not going to get their youth back. No one does and to be a well adjusted person, one must understand the stages of life. At the end of the day, being an adult is about responsibility. When you make a commitment, especially in marriage, you should honor it with fidelity.

If you are in an adulterous relationship I encourage you to stop cheating, ask God for forgiveness and go back to your spouse, if you have not already divorced. The Bible has specific conditions about marriage, divorce and frowns upon the adulterous party remarrying.

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What Kind Of Man Has Sex With His Best Friend’s Girl

 August 31, 2015

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What type of man has sex with his best friend’s girl? A cruel one who should have listened to his conscience and not done it. A famous man in his twenties had sex with one of his best friends’ girlfriend. His best friend is even planning on marrying this woman, who betrayed him in this manner, but he doesn’t know about it yet.

The athlete’s on and off again girlfriend, who doesn’t love him but has sex with the star for money, gifts and to show off to people online and in person, is also best friends with this girl that her famous on and off again boyfriend had sex with behind everyone’s back. They both betrayed their friends by having sex with each other, in something that was so unnecessary.

The friend shouldn’t be surprised though, as he has watched in disappointment as the famous man cheated on his girlfriend with many women he even openly flirted with online, thinking it makes him look like a macho man, when it has only served to make him look very bad to his fans and former female admirers, who thought he was decent.

At the encouragement of some of his other friends, who are promiscuous and live vicariously through him, the famous athlete is on social networking behaving like an absolute dog in heat and it has turned off many women who were once fans.

It has also given potential advertisers great pause. In trying to prove he is a stud to men online without morals, he has cost himself a lot of money as potential endorsers who make big deals with celebrities took one look at his social networking pages and decided they did not want him fronting their family oriented brands.

His extraordinary lack of self-restraint is not only costing him many fans who have ethics, but a fortune in money he would have made from endorsements. This is ironic as the athlete doesn’t have that much funds to begin with and could legitimately go broke in the not too distant future.

I feel bad for the athlete’s friend, as he really loves this woman, who has so betrayed him. They’ve made a fool of this poor guy, who has been there for both of them through some of the toughest times in their lives.

The guy brags about her on social networking all the time and has told many people he is going to marry her (and vice versa) yet she betrayed him with the athlete that he’s known and supported like a brother for years. Their families all know each other as well. Their parents are going to be devastated at the betrayal.

It’s not everything in life that you can do that you should do. When some opportunities present themselves, you should have the decency and moral fiber to say no, as it is a hurtful betrayal of others and can cause innocent people lasting pain.

Some of the famous athlete’s friends are partly to blame for what has happened. They encourage him to behave like a dog with women who talk to him solely because he is famous. These women do not care about him and he does not care about them, but he has sex with them anyway, putting his health and others at risk.

His friends, who need to grow up and stop being leeches, brag about his sexual promiscuity on social networking, offending his fans and it has run away so many decent women from the athlete, who once thought he was good, but now label him a dog.

His friends encourage him to party when he should be training or resting. They know nothing about sports or career management, but due to their affiliation with the famous athlete, think they now know it all when they are not responsible for his success (God, the athlete, his manager, coach/trainer and business people are responsible for his success).

His friends have him out partying and drinking on the weekends in something that is going to breed failure in his career and destroy his persona life and health. An athlete training during the weekdays and partying on the weekends will damage his body, career and bank account. That’s a negative cycle being repeated week after week and taking its toll.

His friends use his name to get into parties and various venues. They name drop him to get women to have sex with them who are trying to get close to the athlete, not them. Any woman who would have sex with the friend of an athlete to get near the athlete to date said star needs to get new priorities in life.

His mother did not raise the athlete to behave like this and is not properly apprised of her son’s destructive behavior, but under the influence of a few friends, he has flown off the rails, getting into bad habits endangering all he has worked for in life.

The irony is if he got into trouble or his career fails, these same so-called friends would quickly abandon him. Yet he is risking everything under their bad advice and goading.

Now the main friend in their circle, who has been announcing how he plans to marry his girlfriend, has been betrayed by this behavior, as the athlete has had sex with one of his best friends’ fiancée, in something that never should have happened.

They wanted to see what it would be like to be with each other and let lust get the better of them. These two friends should have never sexually known each other, as it betrayed the people they have dated for years and truthfully, they do not belong together. They are incompatible. As the phrase goes, “With friends like these, who needs enemies.”

I keep thinking to myself, they couldn’t have said no to sex with each other for the sake of the poor guy, who actually loves this woman that he made known his intentions to marry. And said woman, who by all accounts is really in love with her fiancé, could have just said no to the athlete, who has known her fiancé for so many years.

Of all the women he could have picked, couldn’t he have just chosen not to have sex with his best friend’s woman. Some people are off limits. It is such a betrayal of a good friend, who trusted them both.

In another incident, said athlete has been flirting with and eying up another friend’s wife and people are noticing and are not amused. It’s not a good look. The friend is a married father and the athlete is lustfully staring at his wife in behavior that is completely disrespectful and wrong.

Said star needs to get a hold of himself, as his behavior has gone too far. And that friend is the type who would kill him in a rage over his wife (though it is something the site does not support or recommend, as violence is wrong).

When you start making such poor choices in life, it’s time to look in the mirror and ask yourself exactly why you have fallen to such lows and what you need to do to stop said downward spiral into depravity, before you destroy yourself or someone else. It’s time to change your behavior, as you are on a collision course with disaster.

People too often allow fame to cloud their judgment and they do things that destroys lives. God gives everyone a conscience and when you ignore it to engage in destructive behavior there are consequences in life.

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Decision Making Can Make Or Break You

December 31, 2014

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Good decision making is important in life. It will set the tone for your life. Just so poor decision making can bring trouble to your life. Endeavor to make changes conducive to positive changes in your life. Don’t live recklessly or in a manner that will lead to preventable financial loss and spiritual bankruptcy.

Be careful who you listen to, as not everyone will lead you in the right direction. A good friend will tell you the truth and help put you on the right path to success and happiness. Some people you call friends, really aren’t so, when they are telling you to do dangerous things that can destroy your personal and business relationships.

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Friends who encourage you to cheat on your significant other or be promiscuous, do not have your best interests at heart, because it can cost you the one you love or your health to disease, over meaningless risks. Friends who encourage you to get involved in dishonest business dealings, do not have your best interests at heart, as you could end up losing what you have and or imprisoned.

It’s not every idea that pops into your mind or that of your friends that you should try. Temptation comes in many forms and can wreak havoc on your life. Learn self-control and how to think your choices through to obtain the best outcome. Make the best decisions you can to secure your personal happiness and prosperity, as well as that of your family. Remember, choices have consequences.

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Doctor Dismissed For Religious Beliefs

July 31, 2009

 Dr. Sheila Matthews

Dr. Sheila Matthews was removed from an adoption panel, due to her religious beliefs as a Christian, which compelled her not to support gay adoptions. This is clearly a wrongful dismissal and she should fight it.

Christian doctor is axed from panel over failing to back gay adoption

Last updated at 12:51 AM on 20th July 2009 – A doctor has been removed from an adoption panel because she refuses to endorse applications by homosexual couples.

Dr Sheila Matthews, who is a Christian, was told that her beliefs on gay adoption were incompatible with equality legislation and council policies. The paediatrician had asked to be allowed to abstain from voting in cases involving same-sex couples. But that led to her being barred from the panel altogether.

The married mother of one said she had been ‘made to pay for being honest and upholding my personal integrity’. ‘I don’t feel that placing children for adoption with same-sex couples is the best place for them,’ said the 50-year-old doctor.

‘As a Christian, I don’t believe it’s an appropriate lifestyle and I don’t believe the outcomes for children would be as good as if they were placed with heterosexual couples.’

Dr Matthews said men and women brought different skills to parenting, with mothers more nurturing and fathers more challenging. She said children of gay adoptive parents would be more likely to be bullied.

‘Professionally and personally I cannot recommend placement in a same-sex household to be in the best interest of a child, despite what politicians may have legislated for,’ she said…More than 3,200 children were adopted in England last year – 90 by gay couples.

 http://www.dailymail.co.uk

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