Goals: Making The Impossible Possible

September 30, 2015


Having dreams and goals in life is very important. Visualizing the goals in your mind and writing them down is a great way to obtain focus and clarity regarding your path of action.  There is nothing wrong with being a dreamer. Some of the top inventors and scientists in world history, who changed humanity for the better were dreamers that sought to make the seemingly impossible possible.

The bigger the goal, the bigger the obstacles. However, do not let that deter you. Remain focused and work towards your goals everyday. Have faith in God and make the best of all the resources you have in your life. With faith and perseverance you can achieve your goals.

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What Kind Of Man Has Sex With His Best Friend’s Girl

 August 31, 2015


What type of man has sex with his best friend’s girl? A cruel one who should have listened to his conscience and not done it. A famous man in his twenties had sex with one of his best friends’ girlfriend. His best friend is even planning on marrying this woman, who betrayed him in this manner, but he doesn’t know about it yet.

The athlete’s on and off again girlfriend, who doesn’t love him but has sex with the star for money, gifts and to show off to people online and in person, is also best friends with this girl that her famous on and off again boyfriend had sex with behind everyone’s back. They both betrayed their friends by having sex with each other, in something that was so unnecessary.

The friend shouldn’t be surprised though, as he has watched in disappointment as the famous man cheated on his girlfriend with many women he even openly flirted with online, thinking it makes him look like a macho man, when it has only served to make him look very bad to his fans and former female admirers, who thought he was decent.

At the encouragement of some of his other friends, who are promiscuous and live vicariously through him, the famous athlete is on social networking behaving like an absolute dog in heat and it has turned off many women who were once fans.

It has also given potential advertisers great pause. In trying to prove he is a stud to men online without morals, he has cost himself a lot of money as potential endorsers who make big deals with celebrities took one look at his social networking pages and decided they did not want him fronting their family oriented brands.

His extraordinary lack of self-restraint is not only costing him many fans who have ethics, but a fortune in money he would have made from endorsements. This is ironic as the athlete doesn’t have that much funds to begin with and could legitimately go broke in the not too distant future.

I feel bad for the athlete’s friend, as he really loves this woman, who has so betrayed him. They’ve made a fool of this poor guy, who has been there for both of them through some of the toughest times in their lives.

The guy brags about her on social networking all the time and has told many people he is going to marry her (and vice versa) yet she betrayed him with the athlete that he’s known and supported like a brother for years. Their families all know each other as well. Their parents are going to be devastated at the betrayal.

It’s not everything in life that you can do that you should do. When some opportunities present themselves, you should have the decency and moral fiber to say no, as it is a hurtful betrayal of others and can cause innocent people lasting pain.

Some of the famous athlete’s friends are partly to blame for what has happened. They encourage him to behave like a dog with women who talk to him solely because he is famous. These women do not care about him and he does not care about them, but he has sex with them anyway, putting his health and others at risk.

His friends, who need to grow up and stop being leeches, brag about his sexual promiscuity on social networking, offending his fans and it has run away so many decent women from the athlete, who once thought he was good, but now label him a dog.

His friends encourage him to party when he should be training or resting. They know nothing about sports or career management, but due to their affiliation with the famous athlete, think they now know it all when they are not responsible for his success (God, the athlete, his manager, coach/trainer and business people are responsible for his success).

His friends have him out partying and drinking on the weekends in something that is going to breed failure in his career and destroy his persona life and health. An athlete training during the weekdays and partying on the weekends will damage his body, career and bank account. That’s a negative cycle being repeated week after week and taking its toll.

His friends use his name to get into parties and various venues. They name drop him to get women to have sex with them who are trying to get close to the athlete, not them. Any woman who would have sex with the friend of an athlete to get near the athlete to date said star needs to get new priorities in life.

His mother did not raise the athlete to behave like this and is not properly apprised of her son’s destructive behavior, but under the influence of a few friends, he has flown off the rails, getting into bad habits endangering all he has worked for in life.

The irony is if he got into trouble or his career fails, these same so-called friends would quickly abandon him. Yet he is risking everything under their bad advice and goading.

Now the main friend in their circle, who has been announcing how he plans to marry his girlfriend, has been betrayed by this behavior, as the athlete has had sex with one of his best friends’ fiancée, in something that never should have happened.

They wanted to see what it would be like to be with each other and let lust get the better of them. These two friends should have never sexually known each other, as it betrayed the people they have dated for years and truthfully, they do not belong together. They are incompatible. As the phrase goes, “With friends like these, who needs enemies.”

I keep thinking to myself, they couldn’t have said no to sex with each other for the sake of the poor guy, who actually loves this woman that he made known his intentions to marry. And said woman, who by all accounts is really in love with her fiancé, could have just said no to the athlete, who has known her fiancé for so many years.

Of all the women he could have picked, couldn’t he have just chosen not to have sex with his best friend’s woman. Some people are off limits. It is such a betrayal of a good friend, who trusted them both.

In another incident, said athlete has been flirting with and eying up another friend’s wife and people are noticing and are not amused. It’s not a good look. The friend is a married father and the athlete is lustfully staring at his wife in behavior that is completely disrespectful and wrong.

Said star needs to get a hold of himself, as his behavior has gone too far. And that friend is the type who would kill him in a rage over his wife (though it is something the site does not support or recommend, as violence is wrong).

When you start making such poor choices in life, it’s time to look in the mirror and ask yourself exactly why you have fallen to such lows and what you need to do to stop said downward spiral into depravity, before you destroy yourself or someone else. It’s time to change your behavior, as you are on a collision course with disaster.

People too often allow fame to cloud their judgment and they do things that destroys lives. God gives everyone a conscience and when you ignore it to engage in destructive behavior there are consequences in life.

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The Peer Pressure To Appear Rich On Social Networking

July 31, 2015


Social Media And Peer Pressure To Appear Rich

So many people are going into debt for their social media profiles. I saw a segment on the news about a lady who spent thousands on hand surgery so she could take more flattering looking Instagram photos of her hands, which she felt did not look youthful. I’ve heard stories of women buying designer clothes, taking pictures in them for Instagram, then returning the merchandise to the store.

Some women are looking at other women’s social networking pages, see the expensive jewelry, clothes and surroundings, then try to emulate it, not knowing how the items were bought.


There are women online who are secretly prostituting themselves to buy luxury items that you are visiting their pages and coveting. Some are having sex with men they can’t stand, to show off a pair of designer shoes and purses, pimping themselves out.

There’s a woman online showing off designer clothes, purses and shoes like she bought them with money she earned at her desk job (that does not pay well enough to afford those items) but in actuality she’s been meeting up with a famous athlete in hotels for sex. She does not love him and is demanding he give her money and designer things. He won’t even claim her publicly, because he has other women and don‘t want them to find out about each other.


There’s another woman online showing off expensive items, but she bought it all from going to the middle east and being sexually used up in degrading ways by wealthy men, who have even peed and doodooed on her during sex acts. She won’t show you that though (thankfully). However, a certain blogger (not me) was made aware of the proclivities of the men known for shipping women over there for risky, degrading sex.

There’s another woman online showing off expensive things, but what she is not going to tell you is she got them due to rappers having run a train on her, as the phrase goes, paying her for essentially prostituting herself. There’s another woman online showing off expensive items she received from having sex with a bisexual actor who is messing around with men on the side.


What people do in their personal lives is their own business, but in the industry people talk. I’m just stating these things, without giving their names, to let you know there is nothing wrong with you not having very expensive things. You don’t know how people purchased what they have acquired.

My suggestion to the public is do not go into debt to show off on social media. You don’t know how some people made their money or if it was legal. Ethically work hard for what you want in life. In the meantime, make interesting posts on social networking about your faith, yourself, your family, friends, favorite foods and places (on Instagram, Twitter ect). I’ve found the best social media pages are the funny ones. It takes no money to be funny.

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What You Post On Twitter, Instagram And Facebook Will Cause People To Judge You Positively Or Negatively


June 30, 2015

instagramTwitter-logoWhat are you posting on Instagram and Twitter and how is it reflecting on you and your culture. As a blogger, I read many social networking pages by people of all colors and from many nations, to gauge public feedback on topics. There are times when I am impressed by what I read. However, there are also times when I am concerned by items posted online.

I’ve read posts by men cutting down and insulting women in very brutal terms, as a means of belittling and attempting to control. I’ve read posts containing items by men threatening to hit women, thinking it makes them look cool, in conduct that is entirely inappropriate.

However, women do not favor abrasive, arrogant, insulting men. Women also do not favor men bragging about their many sexual conquests online, showing off and trying to prove to certain men that they are masculine. Decent, intelligent men and women reading such items are not impressed.  It only appeals to a small group of individuals, who do not understand women or how off putting such behavior is to people with sense.

Women prefer nice, decent men. It is a major turn off for most women reading items online by a man bragging about all his girlfriends and how promiscuous he is in life. It leads many decent women to write a man off who states such things. Only gold diggers and hookers don’t care about such things, because all they want is money and will scam you to get it.

I’ve seen pages on Twitter and Instagram, where men who show off about their sexual conquests and how stern they are with women, also wonder why good women don’t flock to them and why their cultural background is stereotyped.  Look no further than what you state online.

People need to remember their words online are a reflection of them, their families and culture. People will judge you, your family and culture by your words and deeds, in attempting to ascertain who you are as a person. Going online and playing into every negative stereotype does not help matters. It’s also wise to remember potential employers and the police read social networking as well. Do not put yourself at a financial disadvantage or get yourself into unnecessary trouble. Set a positive example.

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What Messages Are Kids Being Sent About Sex (Video)

May 31, 2015

Video of 6-year-old girls twerking was widely disseminated on Twitter as people rightly criticized its inappropriate content and what’s becoming of kids in society today

Hollywood and the internet are sending kids some serious and detrimental messages about sex and it is doing damage in their young, impressionable lives. There are vines and You Tube videos of preteens and teens wearing next to nothing while twerking and gyrating like their favorites stars such as Miley Cyrus and Rihanna.

This is highly inappropriate and sexualizing minors, which can only lead to trouble in young minds not mature enough to process the full implications and responsibilities of sex.

Preteens, such as 8-year-olds are online making very adult and highly sexual statements on social networking about the opposite sex who attend their local schools and it is alarming. It is not good or healthy for a young, developing child’s psyche to be engaging in such thought and speech.

Preteens and underage minors should not be having sex nor talking about it in graphic and profane terms on social networking. It is inviting trouble from sexual predators, such as pedophiles.

Some may call it old fashioned to espouse these views, but when parents end up with an underage pregnancy in their family, 12-year-old girls expecting their own baby, suddenly life becomes very real and scary for the child carrying the child and the child who fathered the child, neither of whom are mentally equipped for parenthood.

Emotional and mental developmental progress should be done in stages, as the body naturally matures during puberty. Puberty should not include parenthood. However, it happens and in those difficult cases, minors should be given all the help and support they need.

Parents need to watch what their kids are getting up to online and protect them from growing up too fast. Parents need to talk to their children about sex and promiscuity.

I often see items on social networking tweeted in response to items that are trending (being written about by many on Twitter) and at times there are explicit and scandalous tweets by minors (8 to 16-year-olds) that warrants concern for the direction society is going in that kids who can’t even vote, drive or drink are stating such highly sexual things (oral sex, anal sex, vagina sex) that should be reserved for adulthood.

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Choices Have Consequences For You And Others (Boston Marathon Bombing)

April 30, 2015


10-year-old Martin Richard died during the Boston marathon due to terrorist bombing

The Boston Bombers, Tamerlan Tsarnaev (deceased) and Dzhokhar Tsarnaev, adversely affected so many lives with their criminal acts of terrorism. Once able bodied people became amputees, while three people died, including 10-year-old boy Martin Richard.

14 people lost limbs due to the terrorist attack. Testimony in the court case broke the hearts of many, as the public heard about and saw the damage inflicted on innocent people.


Martin’s sister 9-year-old Jane Richard became an amputee after losing her left leg below the knee during the Boston marathon bombing. Despite her adversity beautiful Jane is seen smiling.

There are many stories of people, especially teens, unwisely and dangerously leaving their homes in America, Europe, Australia and other nations of the world, to go to the Middle East to join terror outfits ISIS and Al Qaeda.

The terrorist groups online propaganda, replete with movie styled videos, is working as a recruiting agent among some, in what will ultimately destroy the lives of the people who join them.


Dzhokhar Tsarnaev (found guilty and awaiting sentencing) and Tamerlan Tsarnaev (deceased due to being shot by police and run over by his brother fleeing from authorities, dying in a grisly fashion similar to what he inflicted on innocent people)

To the people considering joining these terror groups, I implore you not to do so. Stay with your families. Finish your education. Fall in love and get married. Buy a home and raise your children to be productive members of society. Do not ruin your life with terrorism. It is a dead end.

I implore people to be mindful of their choices in life. Hurting others is not the answer. Do good in life. Strive to help other people. Let your life’s legacy be a good one that brings positivity to the world and blesses humanity.

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White, Black And Hispanic Prejudices

March 31, 2015


“Prejudice is a burden that confuses the past, threatens the future and renders the present inaccessible” – Maya Angelou

“Prejudice is a great time saver. You can form opinions without having to get the facts” – E.B. White


Prejudice comes in many forms. Some, not all people within races, are prejudiced against other races. There is also another form of prejudice, where people discriminate against others within their own race due to their physical genetic traits.

White vs. White

Some, not all white people, discriminate against dark haired, dark eyed whites within their own race. It is even more ironic when the person discriminating against dark haired, dark eyed white people have those same non-Aryan features.

When you think about it, that’s how Hitler got started. He hatefully and violently demanded a blonde, blue eyed Aryan race of people, decreeing all other features defective, even though he had dark hair and dark eyes. It always amazes me that no one in his government stopped to recognize the hypocrisy and insanity of his actions.

Anglo-Saxon or Aryan whites that are fully European with pale blond hair and blue eyes are not better than whites with olive skin (darker white skin), dark hair and dark eyes.

People look at the outward appearance too much and not what is in a person’s heart, manifested by their deeds, whether good or bad.

Hispanic vs. Hispanic

Some of my Hispanic friends have told me of the prejudices within their race. Darker skinned Hispanics with very curly hair (small curls) are sometimes discriminated against by Hispanics with white skin and straight or wavy hair. These prejudices are regrettable and have caused some Hispanics emotional pain.

Black vs. Black

Some, not all black people, discriminate against blacks who look more African. Due to terrible prejudices engrained in some black people during slavery, where mixed race slaves were allowed to work inside slavemasters’ homes and more African looking slaves who were not mixed race worked in the fields doing hard labor, some ignorant blacks developed prejudices based on hair texture, skin tone and facial features.

There are some blacks who do not date or marry blacks with kinky hair, full African facial features (full lips, thick nose) and dark skin. It is especially ironic and delusional when blacks who discriminate in this manner have kinky hair, dark skin and or full African facial features (thick lips and nose). It is a form of self-hate.

Some blacks marry blacks with curly hair, light skin and or light eyes for the sole objective of seeking to have babies who look mixed race (and it often fails). Anyone who dates, knocks up and or marries another person on such a vain, superficial basis, does not love the person and is engaging in behavior that is an insult to them.

Many of my relatives are mixed race, but the family is still black. I have relatives and ancestors with blue, green, gray eyes and straight, light colored hair, due to race mixing, but at the end of the day, they are not and have not tried to pass for any other race.

At the end of the day, once you have black blood in you this makes you black and there is nothing wrong with that. One should certainly acknowledge and pay tribute to all of the nations and races in one’s lineage, as that is apart of you, but people should not neglect who they are.

By the world’s standards, black is black. Having curly hair, light skin, light eyes, straight hair and or a European nose and lips, does not make you white or better than another black person, who has full African features. It’s plain ignorance to think one is better than another based on one’s appearance.

People who display the aforementioned prejudices are embarrassing themselves, their families and those around them and need to stop. Prejudice is not a good trait. It’s not a good look on anyone of any race. There are good looking people in every race and every shade. If you love someone, race and superficial looks that age and change over time should not matter.

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People Wonder Why Tragedy Struck Whitney Houston And Daughter Bobbi Kristina Brown

February 28, 2015


Whitney Houston and Bobbi Kristina Brown

Legendary singer, Whitney Houston died in 2012 of a drug overdose in a Beverly Hills hotel bathtub, where she drowned. Fast-forward three years and her daughter has overdosed and drowned in a bathtub and is dying on life support.

Some are wondering why these tragic events have happened and how it figures into God’s plan. People often equate being famous with a person somehow being invincible. None of us are invincible. We all have free will in life. We can use that free will to build up our lives or sadly do the opposite.

When people make certain choices, it is the equivalent of taking one’s life into one’s hands. This is why it is important to make positive, productive choices that benefit us and those around us.


God gives us life. What we do with it is our choice, but we must always remember there are boundaries. Our bodies have limits. Therefore, build up the body and the soul with good things. Do it for yourself and those you love.

Make no mistake, God wants you to be sober. He designed the human body. He knows what it can and cannot take. Thanks to science, we’ve learned as well. We must stay within those bounds of sobriety to live the best lives we can.

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Nigeria Needs Help Against Boko Haram

 January 31, 2015


Boko Haram leader Abubakar Shekau

This month it was reported the Al Qaeda linked terrorist group Boko Haram killed 2,000 people in the town of Baga in northeastern Nigeria. Baga residents’ were killed and the town set on fire.

Nigeria is approximately half Christian and half Muslim. Compendius has written about Boko Haram for years and the danger they pose to Christians in Nigeria, who do not submit to their will. For the past few years, Boko Haram has killed thousands of Christians. This month’s attack on Baga has surpassed last year’s entire death count.

Nigeria needs international help to combat the threat from Boko Haram. Innocent people cannot continue to be slaughtered for their beliefs by a merciless terror group. Something must be done to help them.

The African Union has volunteered 7,500 troops to help Nigeria in the fight against Boko Haram. Technology can also make a big difference in military maneuvers against Boko Haram. Humanitarian aid will be needed as well to help the injured and displaced.

Terrorism is on the rise around the world, evidence by the Charlie Hebdo attack in Paris, ISIS kidnappings and murders, as well as numerous suicide bombings in the Middle East.

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Decision Making Can Make Or Break You

December 31, 2014


Good decision making is important in life. It will set the tone for your life. Just so poor decision making can bring trouble to your life. Endeavor to make changes conducive to positive changes in your life. Don’t live recklessly or in a manner that will lead to preventable financial loss and spiritual bankruptcy.

Be careful who you listen to, as not everyone will lead you in the right direction. A good friend will tell you the truth and help put you on the right path to success and happiness. Some people you call friends, really aren’t so, when they are telling you to do dangerous things that can destroy your personal and business relationships.


Friends who encourage you to cheat on your significant other or be promiscuous, do not have your best interests at heart, because it can cost you the one you love or your health to disease, over meaningless risks. Friends who encourage you to get involved in dishonest business dealings, do not have your best interests at heart, as you could end up losing what you have and or imprisoned.

It’s not every idea that pops into your mind or that of your friends that you should try. Temptation comes in many forms and can wreak havoc on your life. Learn self-control and how to think your choices through to obtain the best outcome. Make the best decisions you can to secure your personal happiness and prosperity, as well as that of your family. Remember, choices have consequences.

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